AAC and my Mum

My mother has Alzheimers. She has had it for several years but this year she has deteriorated rapidly. She has developed complex communication needs as this has happened. She struggles to find words and often can't finish a sentence as she forgets where her sentence is going.  She can no longer tell all the funny stories that she used to enjoy sharing.  She still has fabulous social skills - but most communication exchanges with her now are very brief and general.

My mother is an amazing lady. She was an educator for most of my life - from a primary school teacher to a school principal. She is, quite simply, my hero.  She retired because of her Alzheimers and, unfortunately, it has been the overarching theme of her retirement.

Earlier this year my father and I had to make the decision that she needed more care than we could provide. As a consequence, she has moved to a nursing home within walking distance of us.

When she moved to the nursing home my Speech Pathologist side made sure I ticked off the preparations for her communication. Pulling on my AAC background and all the information I had heard about Alzheimers and AAC - and my experiences working in care settings - I put together the chat book below.

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My intention was that her carers could learn about my Mum, her interests and family. That they could come to know her as the full person she is and not just the person they see today.

However, there's that saying from Robert Burns about "the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry" and this was definitely one of those occasions. My Mum loved the chat book. I printed three copies - one for her room, one for the common room (as I thought it might give them a common topic to chat about) and one for her file. My mother promptly hid both copies she had access to. They were hers, she liked looking at them but no-one else was allowed to see them, not even me!

I tried turning the chat album into a talking book using Pictello on an iPad. My mother had always been a big tech fan (she was ICT co-ordinator at her school for several years, superintending the roll out of Apple IIes, then IIGS' and then early Macs) and I wondered if this might be an option.  Unfortunately while she enjoyed it, she also wanted to keep that version to herself and never used it for its intended purpose.

As a few months passed, I wondered if the problem was that it was difficult for her to have conversations about the pages with others.

I decided to trial another option. I turned the Chat Book above into a series of Visual Scene Displays.  I used the recently released app from Tobii DynaVox, Snap Scene.

I imported each of the photos from the Chat Book, without the text, first of all. I then added hot spots to turn them into Visual Scene Displays.  The app is incredibly easy to use and very stable - since I already had the photos curated it only took me minutes to make an album.

Once I had made the album, I took the iPad (locked into Snap Scene with Guided Access) down to trial with my Mum.

Once again, she loved it.  But this time she actually used it to chat with people. She had conversations of three and four turns with people, including myself.  She reminisced and chatted even if briefly.

A week later she moves between hiding it and using it - but it's a better outcome than the previous options at this stage.  The technology isn't ideal as the nursing home struggles to manage it and charge it - but I can work on that now that I have a shot at something that works.

My next step is going to be to record some of her favourite stories with accompanying photos and see if those are successful too. And I hope that I've found an option that continues to provide some communication options that she enjoys using - and which support her to communicate to others the amazing lady she is.

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  1. Elena Radici

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    This is an amazing work and a precious opportunity for your lovely mom. I personally know how Alzheimer affects a loved one's life and communication since my grandparents struggled with it a lot. It is remarkable what you created for your mommy and thank you for sharing your insights with us. I hope that others will follow your example and keep developing opportunities for persons who struggle with this unfair disease.

    • jane

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      Thanks Caitriona. Visual scenes are so good for social conversations - and storytelling. And you know how much I love storytelling 🙂

  2. Tracey Bode

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    Wow! Interesting to note the obstacles. I'm sure your diligence and dedication will shine through. Thanks for sharing your very personal story. Love to you and your Mum and Dad.

  3. Marion Stanton

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    I love that this demonstrates that there is no, one solution answer and that you need to keep trying things until you find something that works.

  4. Marnie Cameron

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    Hiya Jane,
    Thanks so much for sharing your story and being so generous as usual with your knowledge and resources. I'm not sure if this is true for you - but I imagine this time - bearing witness to your mum's changes would be really hard. I remember you talking about your mum - your hero, and your tales of how amazing she was as an educator. It seems throughout this hard time, you've been able to muster that strength you have to find solutions and have a crack at making communication better for your loved one. You're awesome, and so is your mum. Take care and thoughts with you. Marnie xx

  5. Margaret Redmond

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    Thank you for sharing Jane & timely as I am putting together a book for my Dad in Ireland who turns 90 this year. I was using book creator but now you ve given me other ideas! Thank you & thank your lovely mum for raising a daughter like you who just keeps on sharing

    • jane

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      Thanks Margaret - and I hope you'll find some solutions that work for you and your Dad.

  6. Maureen Nevers

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    Oh Jane, what a meaningful and important post you have generously shared. It seems somehow easier to share about our experiences with our students with CCN, yet how many of us also have personal stories that represent a different (and often more challenging) perspective? Dealing with my mom's lack of speech for almost 3 years due to a Parkinsonian condition was both unique and familiar. The lessons I learned - about presuming competence, keeping hope alive, working with staff - were painful yet invaluable. Strength, hope and energy to you and your family on your journey.

    • jane

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      Thanks Maureen. It was hard to write - but I thought important to share. There are so many people in every nursing home who need communication solutions. Such a hard thing for all of us to go through - and yet many of us have as you say.

      • Maureen Nevers

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        Seeing the tremendous need in nursing homes opened my eyes (and heart) as well. I like to think all of the work that went into supporting my mom was a good model to the staff of strategies and tools that they may have carried to other residents.

  7. Barb Wollak

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    Jane, I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. I went through a similar experience with my mom. I was always looking for and trying different AAC solutions, too, to help with communication. One thing that worked for my mom was having a large poster board with pictures that were labeled. It was so big that my mom couldn't hide it and it was clearly visible when anyone came to see her. The pictures turned out to be a great conversational starter. Blessings to you and your family.

    • jane

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      Thanks Barb. I did try that - but she took the photos off. I think the only solution there would be a lockable cabinet!! Hope all is good with you.

      • jane

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        Although I did just think I could have a poster professionally printed - I'll have to look into that when I'm back from ISAAC - thanks for the idea 🙂

  8. berkowitzssusanberkowitz

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    I had a similar problem with my mother after she had a brain tumor removed. It was frustrating trying to find a communication solution for her. She had forgotten how to turn things on and off, had difficulty with the concept (despite having lived with me and my profession for a couple of decades). One day I went to the facility and found she had crossed out all the breakfast items. She didn't know why - or at least could n't tell me. Good luck with your mom. She sounds like she's at least enjoying the books and pictures. Take some time to care for yourself, too!

    • jane

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      It's tough isn't it Susan? I am looking after myself as well - heading off to Toronto for ISAAC soon. Hopefully I'll see you there.

  9. bexniko

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    What a special read - I totally love and respect your vision and drive to creatively engage everyone, always allowing them to have their voice. - the POWER of communication! Happy chatting with your mum! Bex xx

  10. Helen

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    oh Jane, your beautiful beautiful Mum, how blessed she is to have you!! as you are to have her....thankyou for sharing Jane xxxx

  11. Reply

    Jane a very important message comes to mind here in that you never give up finding a way to engage and communicate with someone using AAC. Never assume that a person cannot communicate you just need to keep trying the many options available. In this situation it is your mum and you have provided her a way to engage with her family and those around her. Good on you Jane.

    • jane

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      Thanks Trish 🙂 And definitely keep trying - and understand that communication is multimodal and is a lot more than requesting!

  12. Reply

    I love this post Jane...from another daughter who thinks her own mum is a hero also.

    A great reminder to us that access to AAC and persistence are imperative factors when engaging with anyone with CCN. Love your work! No matter how old, young or complex the communication needs are....there is always so much to say and so much to be heard!

  13. Lisa Rickard

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    This is fascinating, Jane. Cora would be very proud of the ingenuity and imagination, not to mention love, that has gone into your chat book for her.

    • jane

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      Thanks Lisa! I was just thinking yesterday that I need to included photos of you and Sara. In January she insisted on taking the Christmas card from Sara to the nursing home - in fact, from the moment it arrived it barely left her possession. She feels such a connection and love with you both. xx

  14. Nerida Maclean

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    Hi Jane,
    Thanks for sharing your solutions focused thinking and for once more pushing the boundaries of where AAC finds a role. Your Mum is fortunate to have you as her daughter and advocate. I wanted to mention the idea of including music.There's growing evidence around using music as a way to activate memories for people with Dementia. (Here's a link to Catalyst's story on ABC http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/stories/4421003.htm) My Dad had Parkinson's, so I was interested that they're finding music can assist motor cortex function too.

    I wonder if you might be able to explore how to include some sound files or music that your Mum had some special connections with in the Chat Book or Snap Scene? Music evokes emotional memory better than visuals as it predates language in how it's processed in the brain. Music can simply alter your mood to make you feel happier and more relaxed too, so well worth a shot IMHO. I'm sure you'll find a way to explore if this is helpful or not. Would love to hear any updates if you get time and I wish you and your Mum all the very best.
    Big hugs
    Nerida

    • jane

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      HI Nerida, my Mum wasn't big into music. When they moved out of their house they had a stereo they hadn't turned on for about 20 years I think! I'll have a chat with my Dad and see if he can think of anything - but I'm not sure this is an option for her. Thanks for thinking of it and suggesting it though. Jane

  15. di kelly

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    Boy Jane - that was a post with heart. Such a personal story. Thanks a million for this writing.

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